I agree, the otherkin community is very toxic, and true spiritual development does not occur there….especially when everyone is taught to run away from their problems instead of facing it.
I would probably give the same advice to the guy, since otherkin DO NOT WANT TO BE HELPED.
They DO NOT WANT YOU TO REFLECT THEIR PROBLEMS TO THEM.
You will be hated for it.
Maybe the guy should leave the girl for a while until she grows up.
But if he really loves her, he can stick it through…..he should just beware that he does not get dragged down by it all.
There are otherkin working in toxic pairs… as long as he can balance her “otherkin-insanity” out a bit by a dash of rationality, there would be no problem.
A boyfriend should be there to support his girlfriend yes….but OTHERKIN do not want support, they think and believe what they want.
Some say they are screaming for attention, yet the question of is it healthy attention they seek comes to mind.
Anyhow, the guy has to make his own decision.
I think all people have a little magic in them, but a loving partner would probably not encourage narcissism, to the point where it becomes destructive to his mate.
Oh god anon I am so sorry.
Here’s what you do.
Confront her about it. Ask her why she feels the way she does. Show her a few of our posts, explaining why it’s harmful. Maybe our followers can reblog and add their own advice.
If you can’t shake her of these beliefs? Dump her. These communities are harmful and toxic, and your mental health is more important than that.
you’re telling someone to leave their datemate because their otherkin and the communities are ‘toxic’?
not like otherkin people are called freaks enough
get the fuck out of the otherkin tag uwu
Not ?datemate?. Girlfriend.
And I?ve reblogged better responses than mine about this, because yes the community is fucking toxic. I?ll link you to the posts, but really, you can just look at the notes?especially the posts from smushfacedcat and unanimously-a-sucker.